Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Under the Bus—Black Women and Girls in America

To borrow a line from pop singer Lilly Allen, “It’s Hard Out Here” . . . for a Black Woman or Girl. Just when we thought we were on the mend from the injuries inflicted after Miley Cyrus threw us under the bus in her attempt to “blacken her sound” with her American Music Awards attempted twerking performance, here we are under the bus scrambling for safety-- again. As Black women, our bodies and our sexuality have never been ours to own. And thanks to Cyrus and others, Black women’s psyche and sexuality is constantly being crushed under the flashy expensive rims of the various “isms” rolling through the world we live in.
The tire tracks on our backs were just starting to fade, when I saw this bus coming at us full speed just as we were about to step off the curb at we-can-move-past-this-episode avenue. The driver, Lilly Allen, a British pop singer that I didn’t know existed until I was trolling on the internet and ran across her controversial “Hard Out Here” video and the responses—positive and negative--to it. What is supposed to be “a light-hearted satirical video that deals with objectification of women within modern culture”—according to Allen in response to the Black feminists who took offense at the video—turns out to be another vehicle for calling out sexism and misogyny without understanding how race is intricately woven into the fabricate of discrimination against women of color—especially Black women.

While the lyrics sound as if the song can be a feminist manifesto, the video paints an entirely different picture. Lilly asks, “Don’t you want to have somebody who objectifies you?” and proceeds to do just that under the weakly executed guise of satire.  She sings that if we don’t get the sarcasm, then we’ve misunderstood, but it’s Allen who misunderstands. Her stinging indictment of patriarchy in the music industry subjugates Black women to the roles that she rallies against. Though she uses diverse dancers (African-American, White and Asian) the only ones twerking, making sexual gestures and getting slapped on the ass are the Black dancers. Allen is right when she sings, “Inequality promises that it’s here to stay. Always trust the injustice because it’s not going away.” Allen’s video continues to sexualize the bodies of Black women. She is simply a stand-in for the very men she calls herself calling out. 

As I lay in the gutter, trying to collect myself, I could hear the rumbling of another bus coming. I didn’t have time to roll out of the way; it was too late. Kansas City Fashion Designer Peggy Noland was driving a bus painted with her infamous naked Oprah Dresses. Noland, who has worked with Miley Cyrus and Rihanna, has created a line of T-shirt like dresses that feature Oprah’s face photo shopped on to various Black women’s nude bodies. There’s a skinny Oprah, a fat Oprah, an Oprah with a KISS rock star face and an OMG! full frontal naked Oprah! 

When asked about her inspiration for the dress, Noland said the idea came about as a result of society’s fascination with what designer, celebrities are wearing during red carpet events. So instead of Who are you wearing? as in designer, one can say that he/she is wearing Oprah. Why Oprah? Noland claims that “One of Oprah’s most effective qualities is that she’s a placeholder, she’s a stand-in for you with her foibles and her failures—especially with her public issues.” Never mind that Oprah has carefully crafted the Oprah brand that has made her one of the world’s most powerful women. Noland explained that she tried to mimic what artist David Nelson did in the 80s when he created a painting of the then recently deceased Mayor of Chicago, Harold Washington.  The painting was of a nude Washington dressed in women’s lingerie. Washington, Chicago’s first African-American mayor was a well-respected and much-loved public figure, especially in the Black community. And the painting created such an uproar that some Alderman ceased from the Art Institute where it hung. The incident ignited a wave of racial tension in the already segregated city. 

In an interview about the dress, Noland said, “We feel very protective of our public figures; we don’t want them to be exposed that way. . .” But it’s interesting that in her misguided attempt to show us the human side of public figures, she chose to model her concept after Nelson’s work of a beloved Black figure to create an unflattering image of another iconic figure in the Black community. I don’t understand why she didn’t use someone else who has struggled with weight or another powerful figure to make a statement—why not Kirstie Alley, Hilary Clinton, or even Jackie Kennedy? Why this trend of White women rising up against patriarchal norms while throwing Black women under the bus to make their point? 

When I saw the broken discarded bodies of my sisters scattered across these American streets, I thought it couldn’t get any worse. Our bodies had been crushed under the White feminist banner, only to be hit by another bus barreling toward. This bus was driven by none other than, R&B Crooner R. Kelly promoting the release of his latest album, “Black Panties”. The bus was filled with R. Kelly supporters who prefer public amnesia to acknowledgement of Kelly’s reckless past with under aged girls. The arguments are the same: the girls were “fast” and wanted it, the parents were to blame, and he was found not guilty. Never mind that the release of the album coincided with a lengthy detailed interview with Jim DeRogatis, the pop music critic who first broke the pornography case against Kelly when DeRogatis was mailed a copy of the infamous R. Kelly sex tape.

This is not here-say as the staunchest supporters would have us believe. In a recent interview with the Village Voice, DeRogatis gives a detailed description of what it was like to work on the case against Kelly. DeRogatis points out the obvious: the pornography charges, the annulled marriage to his 15 year-old, protégé, Aaliyah, and the cases settled out of court. DeRogatis also talks about how the court documents are filled with lurid stories of Kelly’s escapades with underage girls, and how he was able to get away with it for so long. The girls testified that that they recruited girls for Kelly and he forced them to have sex with each other. 

Not guilty doesn’t automatically mean innocent. Kelly has consistently denied all of the allegations against him, but he instead of moving away from the controversy, he goes full throttle with some of the most vulgar and sexually explicit music that makes you wonder who served as his muse especially given the album covers for Black Panties.  The cover features Kelly carrying what looks to be a very young woman clad in black panties. He’s holding a violin bow as if he’s about to play her. Then on the deluxe album, Kelly is surrounded by young Black women wearing only black panties. The songs and the images are disturbing. It’s as if Kelly knows that he got away with a crime and he’s rubbing our faces in it. 

Race issues are about Black men and gender issues are about White women, so where does that leave Black women and girls? It’s 2014. Do we need hologram of Sojourner Truth delivering her “Ain’t I Woman? Speech in 1851 at the Women’s Convention in Akron, Ohio?  In defense of her video, Allen said “it has nothing to do with race, at all.” But Lilly Allen, it does. When it comes to Black women in America—it has everything to do with race. Allen is absolutely correct when she sings “It’s is hard out here for a Bitch especially a Black one looking for a bone of respect in a country that continues to deny her humanity.
The irony of it all is that, DeRogatis a White man, who benefits from patriarchy and White privilege in America understands better than Allen, Noland and Kelly what it’s like on these streets for Black women and girls. DeRogatis believes Kelly was able to give do what he did because of the marginalization of Black women in our society. “The saddest fact I’ve learned is: nobody matters less to our society than young Black women.”

Beep, beep! Get of the way. You know what they say about buses, if you miss one, there’s another one coming—and it’s headed our way.


  1. I enjoyed reading your thoughts. You make excellent points. I hope Oprah sues the heck out of that so-called designer.

  2. I enjoyed reading your thoughts. You make excellent points. I hope Oprah sues the heck out of that so-called designer.

    1. Thank you for supporting my efforts. I believe in the idea that "each one, teach one." So, if one person reads something I wrote and learns from it, I've done what I set out to do.

  3. Heeey Stephanie, love your thoughts as well and yes black women seem to end up in the most awkward of places - this time under the bus as you eloquently write.

    It's one of the reasons I think we internally have so many issues with each other, our mates, and the world for that matter, wherein we resort to bitterness and fighting with each other, jealousy, and lack of support.


    1. Kesha, Thank you for reading. Love your comment "It's one of the reasons I think we internally have so many issues with each other, our mates, and the world for that matter" because I believe that we have issues and don't know why,

  4. all the women are white, all the men are black, but some of us are brave

  5. well done maybe one day right will overcome wrong